Thursday, March 02, 2017


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It wasn't just about the pleasure, it was the comfort she felt in his hands as he rubbed her thighs and her back at the same time right there in the tub. How he got here she did not know and she did not care. It was great to finally feel Obinna's arms after years of suppressing her feelings for him. The last few months had not particularly helped matters, she just knew she was horny and she was broken and she needed him.

Just as he finally touched her where she most desired, she felt his rage right from the door before she could even see him. Segun was back and she knew she was dead. If she wasn't in trouble, she would have laughed at the way Obinna scampered out of the tub and got his very first punch from Segun before managing to escape. She knew he was coming for her and he did not disappoint, his hands went for her neck and he squeezed and squeezed, She coughed and held on to his hands on her neck as she felt herself slipping down into the water. Somewhere far away, she could hear Toyin as she screamed.

© Tunde Oni 2017. All rights reserved.

Nneka woke up with a start holding on to her neck as she remembered Segun choking her. She looked round and saw Toyin sitting on the sofa across from her with so much pity.

''Toyin, where is he? Segun choked me, he almost killed me. You met him choking me right?''

Toyin shook her head, ''No he didn't Nneka, you must have been dreaming. You had slept off in the tub, you were shivering and about to drown when I got in, I don't even know what made me come here so early this morning. I am so grateful to God for leading me''.

''Wow, that dream was quite vivid. Anyway, I am fine now, just a little bit cold''.

''No, you are not fine babe, did you spend the night in the tub? I worry about pneumonia, please let us go to the hospital''.

''Abeg I don't have pneumonia joor, I must have slept off there yesterday night when taking a bath''.

''You slept off? How come Segun didn't bring you out of the there? Didn't he sleep at home?''

''Segun you said? Does Segun care if I live or die?''

'' I don't understand, don't tell me you guys are still on all these issues for the past three months plus and you didn't tell me?''

''Toyin, it has been so hard. Segun hates me. He abuses me at every opportunity, he stays out most nights and he even raped me yesterday night''.

'' What do you mean he raped you?".

As soon as she related the events of the previous night to Toyin, she did not hesistate in asking her to call her mum and take a break from Segun by going home for a while.

''Toyin, you know my mum better than that, she will not allow me leave Segun''

You never know until you try. ''Take your phone and call her now'', Toyin said, as she leaned forward giving Nneka her phone.

Nneka's mum picked on the first dial.

''Hello Mum, good morning''

''Hello dear, how are you and how is Segun today?

''Mum, we are not fine and I need a break, I want to come home for a bit''.

''Common keep quiet, you are fine in Jesus name. You cannot come home for a bit except if he is beating you and that is if you didn't cause it. Tell me what happened?''

''Mum, I didn't cause it. Segun blames me for the death of his mum and daughter, he verbally abuses me all the time. He even raped me last time''.

''Common, shut up there. How can your husband rape you. It is his right, you give him whenever he asks. You don't wait for him to force you. So because of verbal abuse you want to leave your home for vultures to creep in? Nneka you want to put me to shame? What do you want the neighours to say when you bring your load home?''

''Mum, I don't care about the neighbours, I am frustrated. Do you know I pay all the bills in this house Nneka said visibly frustrated.

''Nneka, see listen to me very carefully. What you are going through is not special. Women go through worse in their marriages.He hasn't even turned you into a punching bag yet. He doesn't bring women home. I know how many things your father did yet I endured. Endurance is very important if you want to have a lasting marriage. There is no going back and you have no home here to come back to. Look at your aunty Ada, her husband beat her up for years and even refused to send the kids to school, she endured it all and sent her children to school by herself. See her today, her husband has repented and is loving her for everything. You will not be different in Jesus name.''

''Mummy, is it until I kill myself before you see the gravity of what Segun is doing?''

''You will not die in Jesus name. Don't worry, as soon as you get pregnant now, you will not even care what he does. He will love you for giving him an heir. Just take care of your husband okay?''

''Okay mummy, I have heard you''.

''Don't listen to any stupid advise, you know I will never lead you astray. Just endure. Marriage is not a bed of roses''.

''Okay mum''.

''Okay darling, greet your husband for me and cook him a special delicacy this night''.

As Nneka dropped her call, she rolled her eyes at Toyin,

''What did I tell you? Mum said marriage is to be endured and I cannot disgrace the family by leaving my husband''.

''Are you for real? That's crazy. Will you come to my place for a while?''

''No Toyin I will be fine. I wouldn't want Segun reporting me to my parents and mum concluding you are misleading me. I will be fine, don't worry''.

Few minutes later, Toyin left Nneka's house and she wasted no time dialing Obinna to give him an update on everything that happened since they last spoke.

© Tunde Oni 2017. All rights reserved.
To put plainly, this was written by Tunde Oni. Do not exclude my name when sharing. Helping others shine never reduces your shine. God bless you as you honour this request.


  1. Her mother sounds so typical old school 😂😂😂😂. I hope she handles this wisely but her husband sha...

  2. Hmmm! God help our marriages

  3. I feel for nneka. It is painful. Her mum doesn't want to encourage divorce but Nneka needs help so that she doesn't fall into sin with obinna.

  4. Endure...? I pray Nneka receives wisdom from God on how to handle this but she really needs to stay away from Obinna else...

  5. So what's with Toyin and Obinna in all of these? Toyin is actually betraying her friend! And her mum? I don't even want to write anything. Nneka needs help.

  6. I hope she's not delusional

  7. Please Oh Mrs Tunde, when is the next episode coming out ohh!!!! i stumbled upon your blog and i've being binge reading. God bless your creativity....
    I am Igbo, and this whole wahala of staying with your husband until he kills you is just something my spirit does not jell with... Maybe we sick the direction of the Holyspirt in all of life's decision.

  8. I came across your post this morning on IG, I have read all the stories this morning. Well done and God bless you. We never really never really know what marriage entails. It's real hard work. God bless you for educating us. Keep it up.

  9. hmm...i respect nneka i cannot stand one percent of that

  10. I am new on this blog. A friend of mine sent one of your write-ups to me "Choice" and I decided to search for you on google, thank God I got you. I have been following up with write-up from the beginning and I really felt sorry for Nneka and even when her mother was advising her, I couldn't hold the tears from dropping off my eyes because the mother couldn't understand what Nneka was passing through, she (mother) just gave her the normal advice. I pray it ends well for them. I don't preach divorce neither do I encourage adultery but I think they need to contact their Pastor for counselling and prayers. Mrs Tunde Oni, you're really doing a wonderful job, all your write-ups are inspiring and I pray that the Lord will continue to use you and give you more inspirations. Remain blessed